Old man's psychological problem easy to initiate of empty nest

Old man's psychological problem easy to initiate of empty nest
Recently, an investigation reveals, unable to support one's parents after 89%, among them, also need parents to carry on the subsidy after there are over half 80s. Really, as increasingly many first generation of only-children marries and gives birth to babies, appear in increasingly many " 421 families " ,The problem becomes the social focus to support parents. The Chung Yeung Festival in October 16, only the intersection of we and traditional Senior Citizens' Festival. The meaning of festival not merely lies in giving a present for the elderly, even more, for this reason, this issue of health weekly magazine, we have especially become" pay close attention to old man's psychological problem of contemporary empty nest " Special topic,would like to ask reader draw your attention to.
So-called " 421 families " ,Namely mean in the a family, there are 4 old men on husband and wife, play yes 1 child. The little couple after increasingly many 80 " 421 " ,Old, leave a small one " The sandwich clan " . As to a little one, want physical and mental culture naturally, therefore the old one is often ignored, even the quilt " Air " Aside.
The couple after 80 or fighting to get married in other cities, the ones that do not go outside like young couple for living in oneself more. Trace it to its cause, inconvenient or not free to worry living with parents on one hand, on the other hand even because the large urban life cost is relatively high, meet the old man and live together, will feel economic pressure is very large, especially in recent years, the room rate goes up all the way, furthermore make little couple difficult to buy the large house.
According to the report of " the city of our country supports parents and serves to study at home " which the national committee for the study of problems of the aged announced, the elderly's empty nest family of our country and urban (including living alone) at present Proportion last 49.7%,compared with 2000,let's improve 7.7 percentage point. Empty nest family of the elderly in the large and medium cities (including living alone) The proportion is higher, up to 56.1%, it is solitary among them the elderly account for 12.1%, the ones that lived with spouse accounted for 44%.
And long-time and lonely life state, make a lot of empty nest old men all present all kinds of psychological problems, daily life is influenced much too.
A empty nest old man is apt to suffer from old depression
The 72 -year-old Wu A's uncle feels vexed and loses this year, he that the body is hale and hearty suffers from the serious cold at ordinary times, in hospital and has not seen yet for one week that take a favorable turn, therefore phone to the son working in Shanghai, son can do a research, can't leave home at all. Wu A's uncle is not easy to force the son, but feel and lose in the heart very much. Partial to workers to look after at one's side, think about the spouse passed away, the son was so far from oneself, can't help being sad endlessly.
Subject Deputy Director, Zhu JianZhong of attending physician of psychiatric department of old spirit three of the People's Hospital in Jiangmen city third point out, as the 1st generation of only-child, have been enjoying parents' endless loving since childhood after a lot 80, even growing up, working, still enjoying parents' treatment. Many parents support parents the savings a one's own one with all one's heart " Devote " Come out, buy house, buy the car for the child, however, the care like this to the child, that was brought is to " guard the vacant room alone " ,The psychological drop of the old man naturally very much loud, especially at illness or when accidents happened to, because of getting children's treatment, will produce the abandoned psychology, feel orphaned and helpless since sad sympathizing with etc. by oneself.
"Family is very quiet, it is angry not to have a bit, the empty nest old man has innermost thoughts and feelings not to have place that is told, there is not a thing that can be sent if having time. Such an old man presents depressed symptom very easily: Feel lonely, spirit is lonely, think life dull, often recall the past event, pessimistic and worldweary. Some old men will even produce the suicide. " Zhu JianZhong reminds, the psychological problem that the empty nest old man appears most easily is old depression.

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