Ache for the first time?

Ache for the first time?
--Some feelings to first sexual intercourse of the intersection of investigation and woman of contemporary first sexual intercourse experiences of the intersection of China and woman are front, some are negative, this and emotions of both sides have close relations. That is to say, though most women will bleed, will all have a pain sense at various degrees in the first time, but because the emotions of both sides of sexual intercourse are better, women will regard this kind of experience as the obligation, and produced the sense of ownership; If the emotions of both sides are not good, will aggravate and detest the sense. The first experience, as the main fact with the positive feeling - -" the first sexual life is very painful, especially ache in the voluntary sense and belonging to the sense. I really totally accept for the love, because like bearing soon, will pay soon. He can not bear, says, let it be to see your painful appearance. After finishing for the first time, think the people in the world all change. See one will think he can do it evening, it seems, see the other side of people at street. " "The sexual life is unsuccessful after we get married, just succeed several days later, have no pleasant sensation, only feel psychological satisfaction. " "We had sexual relations after registering, had not held the wedding yet at that time. It feels what except first time does not have while being painful. There is a kind of feeling, think oneself was the adult from then on. " "We do not have anything that feel, feel a little tense for the first time, not very painful, come over muddleheadedly. " "It is 21 years old that I hand in firstly, it is before marriage. Have not felt very painful. " "He and I do not have sexual life before marriage. Pre-marital he is afraid oneself is not good, thinks oneself old and too large (more than 30 years old) ,Neurasthenia is sentimental. His psychological pressure of that day of getting married is very great. The the very night has been penetrated when being put in. He said at that time: I am not all right, we two must divorce. Did not really complete until about one month after marriage. I am a little painful, blood of some that flow. His penis is partial and small, physiological and non- strong, so psychological high pressure. " "Especially ached for the first time, sometimes too will ache later. " "First I can not either that he does not even know. My darling's moral character is perfect. Their family is revolutionary families, nothing else is explained except orthodox education, so we do not understand at all, do not even know, any books could not be found at that time to live the sexual life, mother does not tell us either. First he can not find the place. I especially ached at that time, at long last did finally. Turn on the light, has seen blood, he says: You are still a virgin. (I was not decent that someone said in the factory at that time, the reputation was not good. ) "First sexual intercourse of my is certainly to seem not to feel painful after marriage. He is raw at the beginning, the hymen seemed to have been broken later. " "Remember I allow him do this for the first time, want while being other what does it make you like, because I do not want children. He says, it is very rare like me. Took contraceptives and dared to do later. I have had no impressions on this for the first time. It seems to neither ache, nor know that there are this matter of the climaxes. He does not know either. " One give one women of married man describe her feeling like this for the first time a one's own one: "He came to my dormitory that day, that was first sexual intercourse of my. He according to in bed me, enter to a little ache. I only know before this men will enter the woman's health, will not know that should be into somewhere. After he enters, I have a kind of feeling which two peoples combine together. I think in other words, we want, live together, have feeling of one ' me people of him '. " The first experience, as the main fact with the negative feeling - -There were women who detested the agony and felt while recalling the first sexual intercourse to go through in those to detest the sense, mostly either already divorced, or the relation with husband is not good. In view of this, sexual life and couple in close relations emotion have, affirm who on earth it will be two because who fruit while being difficult very; Extremely act as the cause and effect of each other probably - -Because the emotion is not good just feels and detests sexual intercourse; Because very broken to aggravate the intersection of couple and deterioration of emotion in impression to sexual intercourse again. One divorce the woman recalls the first one's own sexual life like this: "Lump-sum experience feel too bad. I marry him without talking to fall in love in the past. I do not like him very much at the beginning, feel very awkward. The intersection of he and first sexual life the intersection of urine and I quickly (slang of Beijing: One suit) Urine,give I impression broken extremely. I had not liking the sexual life all the time later. I have never received remakable touch, has not loved, the feeling only abused. " "First time is very painful, has bled, it is not very successful. He has not let me sleep enough that evening, has done for four times. I cried that time finally, sitting will say to him, what you do! It is very painful in a few days subsequently, does not ache one month later. " "Not feeling painful for the first time, he is premature ejaculation. I detest very much, though I have not said, he can feel. Till this time, I have not seen the male sex organ, have only seen the child, think that receives the amazing one very much. " "I am very afraid for first time, feel painful, feel shocked too, do not like, unhappy, uncomfortable in the heart. It was embracing at most that I liked the man, caress it, come on. " Some women feeling for experiences first's getting finer,it is because of to thing the disgusts of itself, because the targets of the first sexual relations are not but the husband but lovers, psychological pressure is too great: "Mine is not with the husband for the first time. I was not small at that time. Remember I was very frightened when we kissed, hate others very much, think it is he that has hurt me. I think that is that one kind comes from instinctive fear, Chinese style received with me while as a child virtually is educated and had something to do. I repel this at the beginning, he asks me, I have been refusing all the time, can not really decline finally. In fact his traditional moral concept is very strong too. We are only general friends of men and women, he has a wife. I am still very heavy to seeing for the first time. " Though woman's feelings to the first sexual intercourse experience are very different, they mostly take it seriously, because it is in their experience of life after all " The first time " . There are many in people's life " The first time " ,Remember, have persons of mother say how cherish joyful mood, observe child she " The first time " : Speak for the first time and walk for the first time, become literate etc. for the first time. However, in the minds of a lot of women, first sexual intercourse and other " the first time " There are different meanings - -Lose virginity, become " adults " ,Become and a kind of different persons before; This kind of feeling should be regarded as and mainly come from psychology, but not physiological. That is to say, this " the first time " And the others " The first time " Difference come from mainly because that society standardize, can't come From the special meaning which the society gives to sexual behavior (such as idea of virginity, etc.) .

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