It is simple for 6 to look for fine time such as love such as _ such as men for oneself

It is simple for 6 to look for fine time such as love such as _ such as men for oneself


First, the standard is reasonable
A peculiar phenomenon, the higher it is the person with the lower level the standard is made, the lower standard what the person with the higher level made is. Especially the woman who only there is a cheek got through, dream of highest, because there are really too many chances that the society gives to them, they have reasons to expect. But a lot ones that suffered finally are limitless blow. The woman the with more capability, will not consider oneself too high, does not require the husband either. If goal that you make very high, prove you pieces of without capability person, let's reduce, accord with the actual conditions like this. If you very strong capability have, you would not give what standard oneself make, needn't certainly reduce.
Second, it is one's own to give the chance
And does not say how few our communication activity is, but how is your behavior on these activities? In this modern society, all need the chance everywhere. "Glance back 1,000 times of the previous existence, brush past once which just brings this life; Brush past 1,000 times of the previous existence, just bring acquaintance in this life; Acquaintance 1,000 times of the previous existence, just
Bring once bosom friend in this life. " As a boy strikes up a conversation with you voluntarily, a chance of oneself that give, know him, judge again. Because he is good to your primary impression, it is expected to fall in love with you; Don't expect what kind of the intersection of love and you how he is at this time, that impossible, unless he lies. So give him too many obstacle at this time, a chance of oneself that do not give.
Third, know men
The man is not certainly perfect. And there are the man's ingrained bad habits. It is known which are the man's common fault, which can be forgiven. Which can't be forgiven. The man who hits the woman can't forgive for, the once in a while drunken one can forgive for; The ones that ate the soft meal can't forgive for, there is a difficulty for the moment but there is very strong dedication and can be forgiven; Hardened gambler visit prostitutes friend can't forgive for, eyes see whom beauty can look sidelong at can forgive for. There is not filial devotion that does not have moral integrity that can't forgive for, what did a bad thing and repented can forgive for once in a while. The wastes can't be forgiven, the prodigal can forgive for later. It can't be forgiven that quality is abominable, the only a little lustful one can forgive for. Where does the man has a lustful one. So long as he can be kind to you, put you in the primary importance, he is a good husband. The ones that failed to keep faith can't forgive for, because such a man has no sense of duty, the well-meaning one says what lay can forgive for, who can talk about a lie?
Fourth, clever stands up
The good man puts down the wife, does not need a servant that will only activate, does not need a prostitute who just has the cheek, do not need an idiot of unreadable rubbish, not need one to just give to mother who he helped, do not need one to send to a commandant's superior of number to him, does not need a slave receiving absolutely one's instruction to him. So: Please put your seat in a correct place, if you are thinking of becoming his wife, then you are equal, whom you need to help each other when both are in humble circumstances, want, can walk with you attitude of all one's life come on, treat he. So need your having one to exchange theoretically, can rely on each other on the emotion, can there is one that is discussed on the thing, that is to want the heart to have magic horns, in this way your life can be happy. None of men do not like the bright woman, it is " pretty and intelligent " that comment on woman's best word . Agreeing with he bright at least of you, let you have words to say to become, the person who can talk. This is essential. The bird makes a small honey similarly in accordance with people. Conquer him with one's own intelligence.
Fifth, create the chance
When you have met such a good man, like that singing: Elder sister's younger sister stands up, catch him and don't let him go away. Pay attention to creating the chance, let him find you are good and don't explain very much, must respect oneself at this time, such a result is better, just take foot stamina, let him fall into your gentle trap, in fact a lot of woman experiences in this respect are still very abundant. Whom I say take various way ' Except going to bed) Catch him, must not only want to wait for him to chase you. " silly and silly,etc. it is useless " ,Ones that must be adopted some obscure means, prove according to a survey report of U.S.A.: Totally taken the initiative this man by the wife between men and women, the wife is good, then adopt some hint, man just now if there is an opportunity, though display as if the intersection of the husband and first time sees she right away fell in love with her, but if not have she by pieces of meaning on this,he is be sensible too leave,or whether see the husband this whether there are on plan of her on she for the first time. So the woman must take action.
Sixth, not greedy, stop before going too far
Don't be confused by the money, don't just marry him, he went for imprisonment, or gone to the guillotine. "People do not have long richness, the family is not long and poor. " In this fast changing society, should pay attention to his ability, instead of the identity, pay attention to ethical training. He needs to look like a man, instead of the child, it is gentle, courageous and resolute that there is the man. Don't say oneself poor to afraid need easily marry, lose oneself, don't very early to send one's own valuable thing, give oneself chance, give oneself chance more.


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