Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Stand between love and friendship in fourth kind of emotion

Stand between love and friendship in fourth kind of emotion
So-called " the fourth kind of emotion " ,Namely visit feeling of men and women that go between love and friendship, until " spirit falls in love " essence its Have much places that plays the same tune on different musical instruments - -The ones that have men and women's feeling and have no mat woven of fine bamboo strips of bed are joyous, have only changed a modish statement. Speak of this kind " Fourth kind of emotion " ,Everybody will say this is way of doing things of clever woman and clever man. The clever woman has one's own different charges in nature friend, they are more outstanding than one's own husband in many aspects, with them, play the part of the elder sister, play the part of the younger sister, play the part of the teacher or superior, play the part of the friend of the same sex, in a word can learn many things, even all right and one's own husband becomes the good friend. Though, a woman, opposite sex's friend's quantity and quality after marriage, it is the important index of investigating marriage quality and life quality. Because can find out whether your husband is tolerant and believing in you, whether you have glamour and independent life after marriage. But this always clever woman's way of doing things, certainly this is that a clever man did the thing. There is a method not clever either. That kind pursuit love must, dangerous and fragile in friendships so-called that be retreated and looked for second solution. The method to want to obtain love from the route of the friendship is absolutely to waste time and resource, use an egg of even longer time not to hatch into a duckling either, even if play the part of ducklings, the good friend turns into couple, seem to grow the person in New Year, not passing for less than New Years, pass on less than birthdays; Seem, pinch one two article again, it is more splendid for content to may not be certain, payment for an article or book written but little and half the. The friendship is the friendship from the beginning, the love is the love from the beginning, so have nothing to worry about. The friendship that attempts is only a kind of ambiguous emotion that those have love, someone likes saying, this is an emotion between love and friendship. In fact, between the love and friendship is blanks, it is the mountain valley between two high mountains. We only can make, to let both kinds get highest peak, have mountain of friendship, why sing the song of the love? It is said to harbour " Fourth kind of emotion " Men and women,can go through fire and boiled water to the other side,devote heartily to the other side since material and spirit two respect - -This is so-called slightly greater than friend; But treat with due respect each other, the act of the nothing wind moon - --This is so-called a bit fewer than lovers. Alas, such realm, it is high to endanger, unless everybody is all Yao and Shun, or else " the fourth kind of emotion " ,If can only be transient at most, just on that short twinkling of an eye, or fade, or lose flavour. Ancient cloud: " send the feeling and stop the gift " ,This is certainly a kind of very high realm, the diet men and women among this world, but there is such awareness little, to take place promptly feeling, like dreadful monsters, tempestuous, among the mulberry under the footpath between fields, wild to equal to joyous, resort to every conceivable means, where still can control definitely, advancing and retreating has degree? One man and one woman, can devote heartily for the other side, will approve each other, appreciate each other. This kind is appreciated and approved, than " more " ordinary friends ,It is this, meaningful, lingering musical sound is infinite. Eyes the intersection of feeling and matchmaker, heart, for want kind, ambiguous seed cover with one layer as thin as cicada's wings coat only, how needed expedite child delivery,so long as dial gently that,it meets that wind is getting longer, bear the monster of a emotion. In actual life, perhaps people can put out " the fourth kind of emotion " of this kind Illustration,last those two Israel " the elder sister and younger brother " Or " brother and sister " The men and women matching, each have families, care about each other, it is not a section of much-told tale? However, this kind of story no matter how many moving details it had once had, its result was often similar surprisingly ......The game is not interesting. The ones that do not take utility color " Fourth kind of emotion " Unimaginable, have one party to embrace a certain psychology that covet always, expect one's own input can get a certain formal repayment. As reciprocating after being realized, either it is to the satisfaction of all to fit in easily, the tragedy in human world that or have a broken home with one's wife and children drifting apart. Thus so-called this kind " Fourth kind of emotion " ,It would be better to let " The emotion of steel wire " ,Shake from side to side but dangerous. Let us see together " The fourth type emotion " The sample that what it is! The more than friendship a bit emotion, most deep bosom friend, trust and tacit understanding, even surmount time and distance and never change in decades in several decades, the pole that it is the emotion among the men and women comes. It is the spiritual friendship of distillation, the ones that do not have in love bill and coo and empty and putting to the trouble of caring for, it is not as tender and lovely and apt to die young as love. This kind of emotion not only I'm afraid it is but also the supreme realm of the emotion in this world among men and women. Some more than friendship of this kind of emotion, let friendship and love exist at the same time but only keep in touch partly. It is more than friendship a little is sexual love, and the responsibility than one point with little love. Two people turn from friend into a more intimate sex partner, but needn't pay any commitment, everybody is very relaxed, with going on, do not get along well but also it is resented that the unlikely resentment is poisonous. Who thinks whom right away makes a phone call, spend one and disappear at the soul's night lightly. Who what difficulties there are, should help to help too. Each have other partners tacit too of sex, can well accept, will turn hostile suddenly like lover never. This kind of emotion is suitable for the single personage of unwilling marriage, come to nothing two does not owe. A slightly greater than friendship one of this kind of emotion is the money, respecting than the love a bit less one. It is even with the emotion said that it is the money the product exchanged by a human body. But the friendship that said herein referred to that friendship of theirs, said love was that they are being called the lover externally anyhow. Its essence but you ask me to need, the foundation is money and vanity. Author: Xin Ying Select from the heart and hold up the network

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