The second time " Wean "

The second time " Wean "
The child who just studied, the prominent characteristic was " becoming " . Physiological to change, the child begins development; Changing too psychologically, parents will find, I wonder when, the child is not obedient, you want it eastwards, he leans towards and wants the west. The phenomenon, call " the antagonistic psychology " as at the psychology This period, call " the psychological wean period " as at the psychology ,Someone say jokingly this ises. Entering the middle school from the primary school, it is a kind of leap to child, they do not often think oneself is the child, the hope of moving about independently becomes stronger and stronger, they want to get rid of parents on one hand, act on one's own, but on the other hand, must rely on the family. The child in this period requires others to regard them as the adult strongly, if parents still treat them as the child treat at this moment, they will be bored, will think the self-esteem has been injured, will produce psychology and opposite mood resisted. No wonder parents often complain the child is more and more not obedient, but the child says it is very annoying that parents chatter. The child in this period, though ego consciousness has been developed, the self- control ability is still very bad, the regular meeting violates discipline unconsciously, they like disputing with people, but argument is insufficient; Like stating one's views, but it is inaccurate to judge; Like criticizing others, but apt to be one-sided; Like suspecting others, but lack fact argument. Teenagers, with the growth development of the body and mind, from depending on parents' psychological condition is seperated gradually, judge, solve new problems faced by oneself by oneself, this is a person's socialized process, it is from inmature to ripe transitional period. So, parents should see children are growing up, respects the child's self-esteem, establish the friend type relation of a kind of intimate equality with they, believe children have independent ability to deal with thing, support oneself as much as possible, especially when they meet difficulty or fail, parents even more should encourage the intersection of comfort and they, help them to analyze the things, make a clear distinction between right and wrong. Meanwhile, parents can't yield to the child's unreasonable requirement and bad behavior, in case the child will always coerce parents with way to resist afterwards. --Select from " Chinese Medicine " Transfer it to from K12 education networkwww.k12.com.cn

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