Nine major sincere advice of the first appointment

Nine major sincere advice of the first appointment
(1)Don't say at the time of the first appointment: I in the past . Make great efforts to talk to the topic of life, don't mention and love old. If he asks about your past, you should answer carefully. But must not compile the story. Topic that the memory not very good to the past love can not be which become ideal. Such a theme can't give him impression to leave full marks, let him give a discount to you instead. (2)Don't let the other side think you are a very busy man. You want for a kind of comfortable feeling like that which he can meet at any time. If you let him feel you are very busy, he will not feel very steady and sure, he will guess the day for the future is unstable. (3)Don't discuss too much one's own past events in first meeting. Save some topics, save some stories for the future, keep some mysterious feelings. (4)You should be self-confident. People like confident person generally, but you want, there is clearly demarcated boundary line understand self-confidently and complacently. Let him understand you are very modest and calm, but have confidence very much. Must not swelling oneself, this will make him uneasy. (5)The dialogue should be interesting, keep flowability. You should be alert, sharp and quick. Either party can't even do monopolizing leading factors between two people, this can't be called and talked. If you are making great efforts to keep balanced, and the other side tells oneself simply, perhaps then such a person does not suit you very much. (6)It is just anxious to draw a conclusion to him in one or two hours not to meet. The primary impression is very important, but the primary impression does not represent all of his. As distance tests a horse's strength,so time reveals a person's heart, you should associate several times more, observe slowly. Everybody represents one's own best one side to the other side at the time of the first meeting, moreover you should understand some people's performance ability is very strong. Be careful, don't be too urgent, give him several chances too to you. (7)Don't give up him because he and old lover are too different. People such often, what kind of person does it love in the past, compared according to such a standard. People always like yearning for and missing the chances at the moment in the past. You will appraise him objectively, can't always take him to compare with past lover. Though he and your old lover are totally different styles, perhaps you will because discover his real value and exclaim endlessly. (8)Pay attention to the person that has a few problems psychologically. Going down will have many unpleasant things with the long-term contacts of the person of this type. For example, tell you how he hate one's own mother at the time of the first appointment, just met an hour ago and began to discuss one's own ideal and aspiration,etc.. So, if you have any unusual feeling in the heart, don't neglect it, should consider carefully. (9)Contemplate the person completely different from your life attitude, life inclination, this isn't to say, must hand over to one hobby, the intersection of habit and complete and the intersection of you and alike people. Like people of sport with sit people of life all day long extremely or unwilling people live together even to take a walk, feel boring? Transfer to and select from drgama.com: Grand View Garden of the marriage

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