The second generation of only-child behaves and offsets Light cultural life that the heavy material is enjoyed

The second generation of only-child behaves and offsets Light cultural life that the heavy material is enjoyed
September 19 such as Beijing such as network when China is wide news is in the child's growth,who is adult and Cai Cheng from first who after getting more unquestionable originally. However, in realistic education, the family, school, society demonstrate the same deviation all without exception - -Value intellectual more than moral, value mark more than quality, value school grade more than morality and behave, value material life more than cultural life.
The statistics show, our city leads about 300,000 only-children of the one-child certificate at present. Attend the educational experience of behavior of only-child in Taiyuan held in August
Expert of introduction meeting think, spoil, lack only-child that grow up have behavior problem at various degrees in the environment of siblings in parents, especially two generations of only-children given birth to after the only-child gets married.
Two generations of only-children's four major common faults
Moral council's director, Taiyuan mayor wind headmaster Wang JinHua in China say, most of present structure of family is " 4-2-1" Type,namely grandfather, grandmother, granddad, grandmother, father, mother and one of children, child's position in the family is more and more important, parents are itching to give all love to them. Study, any requirement can satisfy, ignore morality, education that behavior forms exactly, " can't bear hardships, be selfish and wilful, have sense of responsibility, lack, help each other spirit, self-care ability poor " Have already become two generations of only-children's common fault. For this reason, four major common faults that experts who attend introduction meeting enumerate two generations of only-children:
The common fault one: Egocentric, wilful, there is no sense of responsibility at home, 6 adults are moving round a child, want what give anything, let child think he eldest of family virtually, everyone must listen to him. So long as a little the minor matter is not arranging him, or lose the temper big, or wail and make a scene.
The common fault two: Depend on unduly, in the bad life of self-care ability, leave the minor matter of the major issue alone, parents help to finish, the child has no chance tempered, cause independence to be bad, lazy, self-care ability is bad.
The common fault three: Lacking the spiritual only-child modestly, modestlying decline, helping each other is indulged at home, nothing in accordance with them, at all times will go, let others voluntarily, see thing that oneself like, take into one's own possession easily, let alone help others.
The common fault four: Afraid of bearing hardships, resist and frustrate ability badly " the teacher, I do not know " , " mum, you help me " It is a lot of children's pet phrase. The only-child cries fragily and easily, resist and frustrate the manifestation with bad ability.

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