Psychological problems brought of divorcing and remarrying

Psychological problems brought of divorcing and remarrying
Because of influence by feudal thought and prejudice of common customs, society can't treat, divorce and remarry fair very also nowadays, especially the woman divorces and remarries, its situation is comparatively difficult, they are common and is discriminated against by the society, so feel anxious, uneasy, even world-weary. A lot of divorced examples prove, the divorced woman remarries, can find actually few the happy ones, and while remarrying, its condition is required to be very limited. A middle aged woman who wants to remarry tell in giving the letter organized in psychological consultation: After divorcing, the few feeling aggrieved to him in the heart, day seems quiet a little more relaxed too. Soon, relatives and friends and zealot begin to introduce the marriage partner to me successively, I am full of the hope to future. But the thing wishes to disobey, the man with slightly good condition is either bringing the child, or let does not take the child's. I bring a child, the other side brings another child, concern the unable place; The other side look for, bring child, I throw away child where go? Always unlikely in order to get married, but does not need the child I, in psychological consultation, has received a woman visitor, she is about more than 40 years old, have divorced for eight years. The good friend has introduced several to her, but did not succeed, she was just like a young girl, unfit for a higher post but unwilling to take a lower one. She can not can take a fancy to, but others can not see her again; Others see and pass the imperial examinations, she, she scorns to take even a glance at again, then still single, her personality is odder and odder, so that think this world is all ashy, very world-weary It will cause going to extremes and knowing to the society of some people to divorce. Especially some women divorcees, there is a good person in the world to think this after divorcing, they generally feel doubtful the opposite sex, do not believe that there are real love and happiness. They live in watch out for in being nervous always, then cause insomnia, anxiety, there is no attention to work and study at all. It will make people face a lot of problems to remarry, for example, the lover will be to oneself, OK, will be to one's own children, OK, will be still as before after getting married, let oneself be thoroughly sad, wait a moment. They are overcautious and indecisive, feel that life is the dangerous shoal everywhere, not a lot of is happy can speak. Select from medical network of 37 degrees

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