After divorcing

After divorcing
In recent years, U.S.A. have up to 1 million divorce to couple every year. However, an investigation that some marriage question experts and psychologists jointly carry on to over thousands of divorcees in all parts of the country reveals: It is the hatred that the persons who divorce of great majority do not fall out to the other side after the marriage is removed, get along oppositely than the divorce " Harmonic and harmonious " . Expert divide getting perfect, person who forgive, getting cold and detached and 4 of hostile toing etc. into with relation of first wife person who divorce still, and regard attending a graduation ceremony of children's the example together as and explain different behavior of these 4 kinds of different kinds of married couple who divorce - -Divorce perfect typely couple will say hello each other in a friendly way while meeting in children's graduation ceremony, and inquire health, work of the other side,etc. recent developments. They may mention some past events that is worth remembering in chatting, will even discuss and buy the graduation present for children in partnership. The divorce married couple of the forgiving type will pay one's respects each other too when meet, but smile on the face rarely. Perhaps they will also shake hands, but start from the courtesy completely. They are unlikely to mention the past event, but will discuss the question of the child's study future,etc., they will buy gifts for child too, but is " each each in charge of " naturally (used after an attribute). Cold and detached divorce couple may just say hello coldly while meeting, later one mao sat respectively, did not have a common boundary each other. The child has come, they will talk with child respectively, will never make conversation each other. And the divorce couple of the hostile toing type are unlikely to attend a ceremony at the same time - -If he is here, she can not come; If she attends, he " avoids" . The reason is very simple: Hate and has not disappeared in the heart, does not really think of " good-bye " . Even met, it is only that " four mesh is glared at " . The experts still think, the comparatively ideal type is the forgiving type. Transfer it to from the psychological hot line in Shanghai

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